Father Of Gender Confused Says There’s Nothing Conservative About Blocking Care Or Something

It’s rather maddening how quickly people bought into the transgender madness, that they’d willingly accept children engaging in what is really a fad, mostly driven by adults and peer pressure, rather than any real belief that the kids are “in the wrong body.” And it’s especially disturbing how quickly the parents bought into the fad, and, certainly, the notion of the kids believing they are trans must be driven by certain parents, considering how we hear that very young children are “trans”, instead of actually protecting their children from significant life-altering decisions

I’m the parent of a trans daughter. There’s nothing conservative about blocking her care.

I write as the proud father of a courageous, kind and empathetic 24-year-old transgender daughter to provide some insight into our family’s experience with gender-affirming care and hopefully to correct some of the most egregious misinformation about it.

In the past year, there has been a tsunami of anti-transgender legislation in the United States, with bills targeting transgender people introduced in nearly every state. These bills and their sponsors are supported by a richly financed group of anti-LGBTQ+ groups such as the Alliance Defending Freedom, which received more than $96 million in contributions and grants in its 2022 fiscal year.

Planned Parenthood is dumping $40 million into the 2024 election cycle. A coalition of abortion on demand groups will dump at least $100 million.

Most distressing is this network’s focus on banning gender-affirming care for adolescents, which has been passed into law in 25 states. We know from our own experience just how radical and cruel these laws are.

When our daughter came out to us as transgender just before her 16th birthday, we listened to her intently, trying to understand what she was going through and how we could best support her. And we questioned, like many parents of transgender children do initially, whether this was just a phase that she would outgrow. In hindsight, we didn’t really comprehend then what it would mean for her to be transgender, but we understood clearly that she was suffering.

Your son. “She” is biologically male. It is not just cruel, but, insane and child abuse to not only let a child take all sorts of drugs but mutilated their bodies. It’s all elective. If they do nothing their health will not suffer, especially if you get them mental health help from a proper professional who hasn’t been captured by the trans cult. Helping the minors “transition” is a dereliction of parental duties.

One of the most common misconceptions about being transgender is that it reflects a choice, closely related to the false narrative of “social contagion” whereby children allegedly are influenced to identify as transgender by peer pressure, especially through social media.

However, when we consulted experts in transgender care, we came to understand what a federal court at the time found after hearing the evidence: “that being transgender is not a ‘preference,’ that being transgender has a medically-recognized biological basis, and that it is an innate and non-alterable status.”

You should have searched out other professionals.

Critics of gender-affirming care for adolescents baselessly claim that children are rushed into such care, but the opposite is true: A recent study found that the median wait time for transgender adolescents is 10 months between contacting a clinic and receiving puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones.

It’s child abuse. If they want to do this after they are adults, they are welcome to do this. Otherwise, kids cannot consent to significant medical procedures, and parents should be arrested and charged with child abuse.

Our daughter achieved substantial relief from her depression and dysphoria once she started taking puberty blockers and then initiated hormone therapy. She has told us, and repeated publicly, that she may not have survived her teen years without this medically necessary care. Those who would deny teens this medically necessary care can offer no medically approved alternative therapy whatsoever.

Somehow, this is all supposed to be conservative values to not only allow this, but, to support it? Get bent. You should lose your parental rights and be jailed.

I was a registered Republican for decades, and I know there is nothing conservative about interposing the state between a child and their parents and physicians who know best how to care for that child.

Complete hogwash. You can bet that if this fad started while Reagan was around he’d say to wait for the kids to become adults, rather than believe in their fad fantasies. Hormone therapy for children is not safe, and is blocked in a good chunk of nations, including most European ones. Elective procedures and mutilation seems like the path of least resistance for many of these parents. The “experts” being consulted are the same ones who push all this stuff on children.

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33 Responses to “Father Of Gender Confused Says There’s Nothing Conservative About Blocking Care Or Something”

  1. h says:

    Abortion?
    At one tome Mr Teach said that was THE core issue for conservatives. But, maybe after seeing how women voters reacted to being called MURDERERS the GOP will not be pushing on that. But SOROS, and the Woke and ANTIFA! will all be all over it.

    • drowningpuppies says:

      Oh johnnie boy just STFU. You’re annoying the adults.
      A major fact you seem to disregard:

      About 32,000 more babies were born per year due to state abortion bans enacted since Roe was overturned, according to a November analysis by the Institute of Labor Economics. Births have increased in every state that has an abortion ban, the analysis found.

      Should bring a tear to your eye, hey johnnie boy?

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  2. Professor Hale says:

    The same party that doesn’t want government interposing itself between children parents and doctors are the same ones mandating parents stay out of school board meetings because professional educators (working for the government) know what is best for their children.

  3. L.G.Brandon!, L.G.Brandon! says:

    Well H, as usual you are incorrect. Abortion was never the core issue for conservatives it has always been the core issue for the leftists especially radical leftists of the communist type and style like you guys because you guys just love killing people. Well Women Voters reacted exactly how you guys programmed them to react. You took religion out of their lives and you teach them that personal pleasure is more important than the life of their babies so basically you groomed them to kill their children. Now you’re grooming them to turn their children over to perverts and mutilate them. You communists never change you’re always on the side of evil.

    • Elwood P. Dowd says:

      White, christian conservatives believe that Blacks, Jews and women are just not intelligent enough to decide for themselves what’s good for them. It’s always been that way.

      Male communists have “groomed” women to kill their babies!! It’s not some conservative christian male’s fault for knocking up teen girls?? Even a little?

      Male communists have “groomed” parents to turn their children over to perverts and mutilate them!! Did you not read the article that Mr Teach cited?

      That’s your story and you’re sticking to it!!

      BTW, L.G., 70% of Americans identify as christians.

  4. drowningpuppies says:

    This is sick.

    Vanessa Sivadge told conservative journalist and activist Christopher Rufo that the two special agents, Paul Nixon and David McBride, “threatened” her and promised to make life difficult for her if she didn’t cooperate.

    “The regime is mobilizing to threaten and imprison anyone who opposes ‘transgender medicine,’” Rufo wrote at City Journal.

    https://www.city-journal.org/article/the-murky-business-of-transgender-medicine

    #LGBFJB
    #Trump2024-StopTheMadness
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  5. Elwood P. Dowd says:

    Thanks to Mr Teach for linking the thoughtful essay from the father of a 24 year old transgender woman.

    I urge all to read it to help understand the issues.

    A trial court in Montana blocked enforcement of the state’s ban on gender-affirming care, stating:

    “The Court is forced to conclude that the purported purpose given for (the statute) is disingenuous. It seems more likely that the (statute)’s purpose is to ban an outcome deemed undesirable by the Montana Legislature veiled as protection for minors. The legislative record is replete with animus toward transgender persons, mischaracterizations of the treatments proscribed by (the statute), and statements from individual legislators suggesting personal, moral, or religious disapproval of gender transition.”

    Why do you care? We hear your excuses – “It’s about protecting the chiidren”. “Not ostracizing trans persons encourages even more evil”.

    Christian conservatives detest LGBTQ persons. You wish they didn’t exist. Now those “faggots” walk around like normal people, holding hands, kissing and hugging!!

    Does the Christian Bible ever condemn slavery? No? Yet, Christians have largely eliminated slavery.

    The Bible ordained execution for several offenses: murder, striking or cursing a parent, kidnapping, adultery, incest, bestiality, sodomy, rape of a betrothed virgin, witchcraft, incorrigible delinquency, breaking the Sabbath, blasphemy, sacrificing to false gods, oppressing the weak, and other transgressions. Yet, Christians have largely eliminated capital punishment.

    Many, if not most, Christians now accept LGBTQs.

    It appears that new information about people and the world can lead Christians to reconsider their beliefs.

    • drowningpuppies says:

      Typical Rimjob (aka SMD) rant.
      “Christians bad”.

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      • L.G.Brandon!, L.G.Brandon! says:

        That’s always rimjob Christians are always bad, fags always good. But he refuses to understand that Christians do not detest LGBTQM2 people. Idiot end of discussion. They detest the sins of the acts of homosexuality, Grooming of children , they detest lying about their homosexual intentions , You know that and yet you keep repeating the same stupid crap over and over again I guess you’re trying to convince yourself but you’re just that stupid.

        You have a really bad habit of telling Christians what they believe and conservatives what they believe and you are neither and have no idea what either believe. And it seems that no matter how many times I and others tell you you refuse to listen to the people who actually practice Christianity and conservatism about what they believe. You absolutely know without any ability to do So what other people believe. And your mind’s not even open enough to sit down and have an honest discussion.

    • James Lewis says:

      Chicken Little Karen Man

      You either unknowingly misstate or you lie.

      Christians are guided not by “the Bible” but by the New Testament.

      The Old Testament was fulfilled by the birth, life, crucifixion and ascension of Christ.

      I opt that you lie.

      • Elwood P. Dowd says:

        Chickenshit Lyin’ Lewis Man(?),

        Weren’t the Commandments you want to groom school kids with handed down to Moses as recited in the Old Testament? Please correct my misunderstanding. It seems you may use the Old Testament to justify your prejudices.

        Isn’t the New Testament all about loving one another, as in

        Matthew 25:

        35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

        37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

        40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

        Why not post this in classrooms?

        But no, you insist grooming kids with:

        I, the Lord your God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me…

        Worship me or suffer for generations!!

        • James Lewis says:

          Chicken Little Karen Man

          Why not post this in classrooms?

          Because without the guidance of the Ten the following will not occur.

  6. James Lewis says:

    Chicken Little Karen Man

    It is really very simple.

    The Left wants “doctors” to be able to treat, by drugs or surgery, under age children without the knowlege and agreement for the treatment by the parents.

    This is supported by the people making money off the genitals/breasts of the under age child and by the Left who want the votes of the LGBTQ people.

    These are the same people who claim the brain does fully develop until around age 25.

    What we want is:

    Parental approval of any treatment.

    Adults, 21 or older, can do what they want.

    I am hopeful that the patient is made fully aware of all the near and long term effects.

    As for you and the other butchers and butcher lovers…. You are despicable.

    • Elwood P. Dowd says:

      Chickenshit Lewis Man(?),

      In most states, parental approval is required for medical treatment of children under 18. Some bizarre religions even allow children to die of treatable diseases rather than treat them!

      Did you read the article by the father?

      Treatment guidelines withhold reversible puberty blockers (GnRH agonists) until puberty. The same with gender-affirming hormones (estrogens/androgens/gonadotropins). Guidelines for surgeries say not before age 16, usually later.

      Studies have found some children and teens resort to self-mutilation to try to change their anatomy. And research has shown that transgender youth and adults are prone to stress, depression and suicidal behavior when forced to live as the sex they were assigned at birth.

      Doctors say accurately diagnosed kids whose transgender identity persists into puberty typically don’t outgrow it.

      Contrary to conservative mantra, gender dysphoria is real.

      • Brother John says:

        Will we withhold food from the anorexic?
        Will we provide a bucket for the bulemic in which to puke?
        Will we provide razor blades for the depressed cutting teenager?

        …..but we’ll cut the tits off a healthy 15 year old girl and the nuts off a healthy 15 year old boy.

        Maybe you should stop and think about the ramifications of the insanity you support, not just hop on the bandwagon because the people you hate oppose it, you sick fuck.

  7. Jl says:

    “Christian conservatives believe that Blacks Jews and women are just not intelligent enough to…”. As opposed to Liberals believing Blacks aren’t smart enough to obtain an ID or a good job without quotas? I see

    • L.G.Brandon!, L.G.Brandon! says:

      You have really got to stop telling me, a Christian conservative, what I believe cause you have absolutely no fucking clue what I believe. You are one evil malevolent SOB. You project the worst on other people because that’s what you think. You’re the king of projectionists you could work in a drive-in movie.

      Conservative Christians aren’t perfect like you are but in modern times we’re the ones who did the most to help blacks, Jews and women. I don’t see atheists in Muslims running around trying to feed people trying to give him homes trying to clothe them. All I see atheists and moslims doing is piling up the bodies all around the earth.

      You really need to look in the mirror dude because you’re part of the worst of the worst and you can’t even see it. It’s disgusting. You should be embarrassed but since you have no ethical basis or religious moral basis to go on you’re too dumb to be embarrassed.

    • Elwood P. Dowd says:

      Oh Jl…

      Conservative Repubs erect barriers to voting to reduce the number that might vote against them. How about let’s put all polling places only in cities of 100,000 or more. That way authorities can monitor them more closely. If rural voters are serious they’ll travel to vote.

      Do you deny that Black Americans were excluded from good jobs, education and housing?

      • Brother John says:

        Conservative Repubs erect barriers to voting to reduce the number that might vote against them.

        If they can’t identify themselves, then that’s too bad. Sorry that your voter base is too goddamn stupid — at least, that’s what you’re saying by implication.

        How about let’s put all polling places only in cities of 100,000 or more

        The only place I’ve seen such a proposal is coming out of your filthy sewer — which would of course empower Democrats. You are one stupid motherfucker.

        • Elwood P. Dowd says:

          Brother John is one stupid motherfucker! https://www.thepiratescove.us/wp-content/plugins/wp-monalisa/icons/wpml_yahoo.gif

          Why would you object to only polling places in large cities? You don’t believe your compatriots are smart enough to make their way to the polling places there?

          • drowningpuppies says:

            Rimjob (aka SMF) proves with his two rhetorical questions that he is indeed one stupid mothefucker.
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  8. Elwood P. Dowd says:

    L.G.,

    I don’t characterize you by what you claim to be – a conservative Christian – but by what you type here.

    You appear to believe that conservative Christians are helping Blacks, Jews and women. No doubt some do.

    I don’t need a preacher to tell me what’s right, wrong or moral.

    • drowningpuppies says:

      Then you better get rid of that White Christian Nationalist preacher wife of yours, you poor poor narcissistic fool.
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  9. Elwood P. Dowd says:

    To all you fathers and mothers here.

    How would you handle your child coming to you and either 1) saying they were gay or 2) saying they believed they were trans.

  10. david7134 says:

    Transgender delusions are a symptom of a psychosis. The child needs mental help, not enforcement of the delusion. The drugs are dangerous and the surgeries do not work.

  11. James Lewis says:

    Chicken Little Karen Man

    As usual the qualifier…

    “…. In most states,….”

    is used to justify aberrant behavior and pave the way for general acceptance.

  12. James Lewis says:

    Chicken Little Karen Man

    Why not post this in classrooms?

    Because without the guidance of the Ten the following will not occur.

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